Okay a girl at work that I like tries to talk to me every now and then even though I don't really make an effort to speak back to her. When she talks to me I keep it as short and proffesional as possilbe because I really like her alot but she has a boyfriend and I feel it's pointless to get close to a girl that I like if she has a man. Anyway, she came up to me the other day asking me how i'm doing and telling me that she missed me the other night when everyone from work went out together. I just gave a very short response and left the room. Without getting into details the next day she intentionally screwed me over at work (not seriously), i'm guessing becuz I didn't really pay much attention to her the previous day. I like this girl alot but I'd rather keep my distance from her becuz I know she has a man, and work relationships are trouble anyway. As much as I want her I know I can live without her and have no problem avoiding her.
Is she trying to get under my skin?
Just remind her that she is married.
Is she trying to get under my skin?
What do your co-workers see and say? work off of that knowledge.
Reply:It does not sound like you are treating her like a sex object on purpose instead of as another human being because she has a boyfriend. That does not make her any less of a colleague as well. If she sees you talk to other people like other people and only women who do not have a boyfriend, yep, she might just think you're a sexist pig.
If you really want to get ahead in this world, make friends with women. A man has to be very smart to hold a conversation with women. It is something true of all great men is they enjoy the company of women.
Reply:Tell her how you feel. She might feel the same way. She could think you are in a relationship.I myself is shy and I like a guy at work and we talk all the time but I can't ask him if he likes me as a girl friend. I want to tell him how I feel but he has a girl and I dont want to get invovel with a man who has a woman. But he comes to me and tells me everything from his friends to his girl. I think I am in Love with him Not just love him but in love with him. He has caught her cheating a # of times. I have decide that I am goin to wait until he realize that he not in love with her. If you not like meLOL SHY tell her how you feel I think you will like the answer!!!!!!!
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