i have a birthday party / halo tourney to go to tommorow. im 15 and in high school, and half chinese. just to give a frame of ref. anyways, the reason i have a problem with this party is because it is for a wrestler, who is a decent person, but pretty much every other wrestler at our school is a ******* asshole. they'll goad me for everything, race, skill, the way i look? you know the type. in any case, i wouldn't ever think if going but i've already been forced onto a team, and it sounds fun. how can i stop these people from pushing me to the limit? these people don't know how to listen to reason by the way. they'll return nearly any logical response of mine with something like, "**** you, chink!". help, please. :]
How can i keep people from getting under my skin?
When you reduce them to calling you racial slurs, you have already won. They can't come up with any logical rebuttal whatsoever to anything that you have said. If you want to fight back, you can point them out to them, tell them you'd rather be a "chink" than a meathead who doesn't have a brain or something along those lines.
I think the more you fight or respond to what they say, the more they will continue. You may just want to ignore them and not respond to anything.
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